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Origin : AI-augmented negotiation

🤖 AI-augmented negotiation

AI & decision support

AI-assisted negotiation: research on negotiating agents (N. Brown et al., CICERO, Science 2022), decision support and bias detection; preparation and debriefing with large language models.

Full detail in the “Origin & history” section below.

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Simulating a Counterpart

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Alexandre Baumberger

Author of the library

Alexandre Baumberger

Negotiation lecturer at KEDGE Business School

A rare threefold background serving negotiation: teaching, commercial justice and audit, backed by experience as a company director in Bordeaux.

  • Teaching, KEDGE Business School Negotiation lecturer since 2014 (12 years).
  • Commercial justice, Commercial Court Judge from 2018 to 2026: litigation, then insolvency proceedings.
  • Audit & advisory, over 20 years Tax, employment and financial audit in major firms, for large groups.
In brief

Simulating an Interlocutor consists of training through role-play against an artificial intelligence that embodies the other party, endowed with its own mandate, its personality and above all hidden objectives that the negotiator must uncover in the course of the exchange. Unlike a human partner, the AI is available at any hour, never tires, can replay the same scenario indefinitely with variants and provide a targeted debriefing. The technique shifts preparation from an abstract mental exercise to a realistic and measurable behavioural rehearsal. Recent work (ACE, Columbia, EMNLP 2024) shows that such training, coupled with structured feedback, significantly improves learning outcomes.

Reading level

At a glance

Its family profile at a glance

Effectiveness Psychologicalimpact Discretion Preparation Relationalrisk Ethics
5.7 / 10 Tactical potential

Vigilance: moderate (4.0/10) · Preparation required: 8/10

Grounding in the source school Documented school

Indicative profile: it situates the “Négociation augmentée par l'IA” family as the AI-augmented negotiation school practises it, not this technique taken in isolation. Techniques from the same family and school therefore share the same profile. NEGOCOACH editorial rating out of 10, non-experimental · the higher the “relational risk” value, the more costly the technique is to the relationship.

NEGOCOACH assessment

How to read this rating

Tactical potential 5.7/10 (effectiveness, impact, discretion) and vigilance moderate (relational and ethical risk): two distinct readings, deliberately never merged into a single score that would reward risk. NEGOCOACH editorial rating calibrated from the “Négociation augmentée par l'IA” family and the “AI-augmented negotiation” school. Each criterion is rated out of 10; click to understand what it measures.

  • Effectiveness 7/10 · High

    How far the technique can carry the negotiation in the intended direction when it is well executed.

  • Psychological impact 5/10 · Moderate

    Strength of the effect produced on the counterpart's perceptions, emotions and decisions.

  • Discretion 5/10 · Moderate

    How hard it is for the other party to notice the technique is being used. A high value = very discreet.

  • Preparation 8/10 · Very high

    The information, analysis and rehearsal required upfront to use it effectively.

  • Relational risk 3/10 · Low

    Potential cost to the relationship and to trust if the technique is spotted, refused or fails. A high value = riskier.

  • Ethics 6/10 · High

    Moral acceptability: fairness, transparency and respect for the counterpart's autonomy. A high value = more defensible.

Level of evidence

Documented school

The school this technique stems from is documented by recognised work and established practice, without experimental consensus. This indicator qualifies the school, not this technique taken in isolation.

Indicative NEGOCOACH editorial rating, for teaching purposes. For “Relational risk”, a high value signals a cost to the relationship, not a quality.

Overview: Simulating an Interlocutor


Origin & history

The technique has no single inventor: it extends the tradition of pedagogical role-play in negotiation (Roger Fisher and Harvard's Program on Negotiation, 1980s) and that of the "standardized patient" forged in medicine by Howard S. Barrows as early as the 1960s to train practitioners against a played interlocutor. Its instantiation by generative AI is recent (2023-2025): the ACE system (Shea, Kallala, Liu, Morris & Yu, EMNLP 2024) builds a conversational negotiation partner doubled with a coach; a team from MIT and Harvard's Program on Negotiation formalized preparation and debriefing "negotiation bots"; Jeanne Brett (Northwestern) created NegotiAge for family caregivers. It is therefore an emerging "AI-augmented negotiation" family, backed by long-standing pedagogical foundations.


Definition and principle

A training method in which a negotiator conducts one or more negotiation sessions against a conversational AI agent programmed to play the opposing party credibly: it has a mandate, explicit interests and concealed interests (BATNA, breaking point, unavowed constraints, relational style), to which the negotiator has no access and which they must infer through questioning and listening. The setup typically includes three stages, briefing/preparation, interactive simulation, analytical debriefing, and allows the interlocutor's profile (cooperative, competitive, avoidant, emotional) and the context to be varied at will, in order to turn preparation into repeated and corrected behavioural rehearsal.


Objectives of the technique

  • Train under realistic and risk-free conditions before a real high-stakes negotiation
  • Learn to detect and bring out the other party's hidden interests and constraints through questioning
  • Test several strategies and argument lines by replaying the same scenario with variants of personality and balance of power
  • Reduce stress and automate reflexes (anchoring, reformulation, handling objections) through repetition
  • Obtain structured and measurable feedback on one's strengths and blind spots, impossible to produce alone

Concrete examples of application

Application by context

The same technique, across every negotiation settings

Context 1 / 8

Sales negotiation

A B2B salesperson rehearses their closing meeting against an AI playing a buyer who feigns indifference but whose hidden objective is a tight delivery deadline, to learn to reveal that lever rather than conceding on price.

Context 2 / 8

Procurement negotiation

An industrial buyer trains against a simulated supplier whose real margin and fear of losing the account are concealed, in order to refine their cost-exploration questions and their anchor point before the real table.

Context 3 / 8

Labour negotiation

An HR director prepares a mandatory annual negotiation (négociation annuelle obligatoire, NAO) by facing an AI embodying a union representative with a seemingly hard mandate but whose hidden priority is employment rather than pay, to test non-monetary counterparts.

Context 4 / 8

Crisis management

A crisis negotiator practises against a simulated hostage-taker with opaque motivations (a personal grievance behind a material demand), to work on establishing rapport and decoding underlying interests without human risk.

Context 5 / 8

Political negotiation

A ministerial adviser rehearses an inter-ministerial arbitration against an AI playing a counterpart whose real political agenda differs from their stated position, in order to anticipate the symbolic concessions that will unblock the matter.

Context 6 / 8

Real-estate negotiation

A buyer simulates the negotiation of a property against an AI seller whose hidden motive is a professional relocation forcing a quick sale, to learn to spot the urgency signals and calibrate a credible low offer.

Context 7 / 8

Cross-cultural negotiation

An executive preparing a partnership in Japan trains against a simulated interlocutor with an indirect style, where the polite "yes" masks a disagreement, to adjust their pace, their silences and their reading of the unsaid.

Context 8 / 8

Family negotiation

Two heirs in joint ownership rehearse the division of an estate against an AI playing the brother whose financial claim conceals a need for recognition, to dissociate the emotional issue from the material one before the real meeting.


Counter-techniques

Spot and neutralise this technique

Negotiation is also played on defence. Here is how to recognise this technique when it is used against you, and turn it around.

Detect

The signals that give it away

  • A sudden imbalance in the exchange
  • Pressure to decide quickly
  • An argument you cannot verify

Neutralise

The counters that defuse it

  • Slow down and reformulate
  • Ask for facts and sources
  • Concede nothing without a counterpart

Turn around

Turn it into an advantage

Name the manoeuvre: said out loud, a technique loses most of its power.

The trap to avoid

Reacting emotionally instead of coming back to the facts.

Strengths and Weaknesses

Strengths: permanent availability and near-zero marginal cost, allowing dozens of rehearsals; infinite variability of profiles and scenarios; psychological safety (the right to make mistakes, no reputational stake); immediate, targeted and uncomplacent debriefing; the hidden objectives force one to practise active listening and exploration rather than argumentation alone. Weaknesses: the AI only imperfectly reproduces non-verbal micro-signals, authentic emotion and human unpredictability; risk of over-learning an "AI" style that transfers poorly; quality entirely dependent on the prompt and scenario provided (garbage in, garbage out); possible hallucinations or inconsistencies of the agent; a false-comfort effect if one confuses ease against the machine with competence against a human.


When to use this technique?

Particularly useful ahead of a high-stakes or unfamiliar negotiation, when a real mistake is costly; to train sales, procurement or HR teams at scale with standardized cases; to work on a precise technical point (handling a recurring objection, holding an anchor, exploring interests); to desensitize to stress before a first major meeting. Less relevant when the relational, fine cultural or emotional dimension dominates and requires a human partner, or for very singular negotiations where no generic scenario is representative.


Famous cases

Business · ACE: a partner-coach validated on 374 users, The ACE system (Assistant for Coaching nEgotiation), developed at Columbia University and presented at EMNLP 2024 by Ryan Shea, Aymen Kallala, Xin Lucy Liu, Michael W. Morris and Zhou Yu, plays the role of a negotiation partner then delivers targeted feedback. Built from a corpus of negotiation transcripts between MBA students reproducing realistic bargaining, it was evaluated on 374 users split into two trials: those trained with ACE significantly improved their outcomes compared to negotiators without coaching, illustrating the measurable value of a simulated interlocutor coupled with a structured debriefing.

Everyday life · NegotiAge: preparing family caregivers, Professor Jeanne Brett (Northwestern) designed NegotiAge, an AI negotiation agent intended for family caregivers facing stressful exchanges with care providers or relatives. The tool lets the caregiver train against a simulated interlocutor with realistic reactions, in a stake-free setting, in order to approach difficult real-life conversations more serenely, an example of applying interlocutor simulation outside the business world.


Common mistakes

  • Confusing performance against the machine with real competence and neglecting training against humans
  • Writing a poor prompt/scenario: without credible hidden objectives or realistic constraints, the AI becomes an overly cooperative foil
  • Not exploiting the debriefing: stringing simulations together without analysing or correcting one's mistakes cancels the pedagogical benefit
  • Over-learning a style suited to the AI (verbose, over-explicit) that transfers poorly to face-to-face human interaction
  • Taking at face value facts or figures invented (hallucinations) by the agent and building one's strategy on them

How to recognize and counter this technique

Recognizing: an interlocutor who reels off arguments too fluidly, anticipates your objections perfectly and remains unruffled may betray intensive training against AI. Defending yourself: remain unpredictable yourself, introduce the human (emotion, digression, an unexpected question, silence) to pull the person out of their rehearsed scripts; probe the real solidity of their positions through open questions and concrete situational tests that no scenario will have covered; be wary of a discourse that "sounds" prepared but lacks grounding in the specific facts of the case. More broadly, a well-trained negotiator is not a threat but a signal: raise your own preparation, including via the same technique.


Limits and ethics

Limits: the AI replaces neither the non-verbal richness nor the unpredictability of a human, and its realism depends on the care taken with the scenario; risk of bias (the agent may reflect personality or cultural stereotypes) and of hallucinations. Ethics: transparency is required in training (learners must know they are negotiating against an AI); simulation data, often sensitive, requires confidentiality and protection; the tool must remain training to negotiate better, not to manipulate, using hidden objectives in learning is legitimate, reproducing deception against real parties is not; finally, one must ensure equity of access so as not to widen the gap between equipped and unequipped negotiators.


Variants and related techniques

Related techniques: classic peer role-play and the standardized patient/interlocutor (medical root); AI coaching with debriefing (PON/MIT-type preparation and debriefing systems); preparation by red teaming or devil's advocate (having a third party play the opponent); self-negotiation where one successively argues both sides; the mapping of interests and BATNA (Harvard) that the simulation puts to the test; multi-agent simulation where several AIs play a multi-party table.


Going further

  • Program on Negotiation, Harvard Law School, feature "How AI Negotiation Bots Can Deepen Classroom Learning" (pon.harvard.edu)
  • Shea R. et al., ACE: A LLM-based Negotiation Coaching System, EMNLP 2024 (aclanthology.org/2024.emnlp-main.709) and associated code/demo
  • Fisher R. & Ury W., Getting to Yes, the methodological foundation (interests, BATNA) that the simulation puts into practice
  • Preprint "Does AI Coaching Prepare us for Workplace Negotiations?", arXiv:2509.22545 (2025), for a critical reading of its effectiveness

Scientific foundations

  • Shea R., Kallala A., Liu X. L., Morris M. W. & Yu Z. (2024) ACE: A LLM-based Negotiation Coaching System Proceedings of the 2024 Conference on Empirical Methods in Natural Language Processing (EMNLP), p. 12720-12749, ACL Anthology
  • Barrows H. S. (1993) An overview of the uses of standardized patients for teaching and evaluating clinical skills Academic Medicine, 68(6), 443-451
  • Program on Negotiation, Harvard Law School (2025) How AI Negotiation Bots Can Deepen Classroom Learning Program on Negotiation Daily Blog, pon.harvard.edu

Quick exercise

Test yourself before answering

Answer in your head, then reveal the solution. Memory is built through active recall.

1 Quels signaux doivent vous alerter ?
  • A sudden imbalance in the exchange
  • Pressure to decide quickly
  • An argument you cannot verify
2 Quelles parades appliquer ?
  • Slow down and reformulate
  • Ask for facts and sources
  • Concede nothing without a counterpart

Frequently asked questions

The questions we get most

What is the "Simulating a Counterpart" technique?

Simulating an Interlocutor consists of training through role-play against an artificial intelligence that embodies the other party, endowed with its own mandate, its personality and above all hidden objectives that the negotiator must uncover in the course of the exchange. Unlike a human partner, the AI is available at any hour, never tires, can replay the same scenario indefinitely with variants and provide a targeted debriefing. The technique shifts preparation from an abstract mental exercise to a realistic and measurable behavioural rehearsal. Recent work (ACE, Columbia, EMNLP 2024) shows that such training, coupled with structured feedback, significantly improves learning outcomes.

Is the "Simulating a Counterpart" technique ethical?

It sits on the line: effective, but it can tip into manipulation if it exploits an information asymmetry. Use it with measure and without deliberate deceit.

How do you defend against "Simulating a Counterpart"?

Reacting emotionally instead of coming back to the facts. The right reflex: slow down and reformulate.

What is the "Simulating a Counterpart" technique based on?

NEGOCOACH does not assess the experimental validation of this technique in isolation. What we document is the grounding of its source school (AI-augmented negotiation): documented school. Full detail is in the "At a glance" section of this page.

Practise with AI

Three ready-to-use prompts

Copy, paste into your assistant, replace the [brackets]. Works with ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Mistral, Perplexity.

Prepare

Build your plan before the meeting

You are an expert negotiation coach. Help me prepare to use the "Simulating a Counterpart" technique in the following situation: [describe your situation]. Give me: the conditions for success, a 3-step script, my counterpart's likely objections and how to answer them.

Simulate

Rehearse against an AI counterpart

Play the role of my counterpart in a negotiation. I am going to test the "Simulating a Counterpart" technique. React realistically and with resistance, do not give in too quickly, then at the end analyse my performance and suggest 3 concrete improvements.

Debrief

Analyse a past negotiation

Here is how my negotiation went: [paste the exchanges]. Analyse whether the "Simulating a Counterpart" technique was used well, what worked, the mistakes made, and spell out precisely what I could have done better.

References

Bibliography & credible sources

Founding works of the 🤖 AI-augmented negotiation school this technique belongs to.

  • Human-level play in the game of Diplomacy (CICERO), Science

    Article

    FAIR (Meta) - N. Brown et al. · 2022

  • Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment

    Book

    D. Kahneman, O. Sibony & C. Sunstein · 2021

  • Co-Intelligence: Living and Working with AI

    Book

    E. Mollick · 2024

AI-assisted negotiation: research on negotiating agents (N. Brown et al., CICERO, Science 2022), decision support and bias detection; preparation and debriefing with large language models.

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Technique map

Where this technique sits

Every technique sits within a network: what it draws on, what it combines with, where it applies, and how to defend against it.

Key takeaways

  • En une phrase

    Simulating an Interlocutor consists of training through role-play against an artificial intelligence that embodies the other party, endowed with its own mandate, its personality and above all hidden objectives that the negotiator must uncover in the course of the exchange. Unlike a human partner, the AI is available at any hour, never tires, can replay the same scenario indefinitely with variants and provide a targeted debriefing. The technique shifts preparation from an abstract mental exercise to a realistic and measurable behavioural rehearsal. Recent work (ACE, Columbia, EMNLP 2024) shows that such training, coupled with structured feedback, significantly improves learning outcomes.

  • The right reflex

    Name the manoeuvre: said out loud, a technique loses most of its power.

  • Never do this

    Reacting emotionally instead of coming back to the facts.

5.7/10 tactical potential Moderate vigilance Documented school

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